Top 9 list you should never say to a girl you’re dating in the first 6 months (maybe forever)

If you say any of the items listed below be prepared to lose all leverage in the relationship. This would entail your free time (which we’ve established is money since time is money) and money.


9. I’m not seeing/interested in anyone else.

Ambiguity is on your side here. Women like no LOVE cat and mouse games. The more ambiguous you make the relationship the more she’ll be after you.

8. I miss you.

Once you say this you’ve established a marker of your feelings. With that she can gauge your interest in her which allows her to test your limit i.e. how much time and money she can eat up of yours.

7. I’ve never felt this way about anyone else before.

The cat and mouse game is over once you say this. You should pretty much castrate yourself at this point. Women always want what they can’t have cause they never know what they want. Once it’s established that they have you there’s no guessing game anymore. At this point you actually have to WORK to keep the relationship interesting such as planning dates, anniversaries, gifts, etc.

6. You’re the perfect girl for me.

Again this is putting the ball in her court. This establishes another gauge that will allow her to test the limits which she can push you.

5. Don’t worry I can pay for that.

I think it’s gentlemanly for a man to pay for a woman. I’ve paid for dates plenty of times but this shouldn’t become a habit. Women’s suffrage happened for a reason. You’re both working and you shouldn’t be stuck with the bill all the time while she leaches off of you. Choose the times you pay wisely i.e. special occasions.

4. You should meet my parents.

This is inviting her to be apart of your family. This is never a good idea and also alludes to marriage.

3. Let’s move in together.

Personal space is a definite must. You may think you’re saving money on rent but once you realize women use toiletries like none other you’ll give it a second thought.

2. I love you.

This is far worse than #7 on the list. You’re pretty much saying please put a leash around me now.

1. Will you marry me?

I don’t think this one needs an explanation.



I’ve been busy with work and life stuff hence no updates in almost 2 weeks. I’ll get back on the ball as I have more free time. Food reviews will be coming soon!