The cheapest and easiest way to start a relationship

We've all seen it before.  At parks, lounges, clubs, restaurants, school, even AT work men pursue women.  In the pursuit of finding a mate men sometimes end up spending a vast amount of money AND money (Yes I said money twice.  Initially I was going to write "time and money" but time is money so you're essentially spending money and money).

When that one girl has caught your eye she is either dating someone else or single right? The correct answer is no.  No decent looking woman is every truly "single".  So as you're chatting it up with her and possibly taking her out to dinner or spending time together she most likely has 2, 3, or even 4 other guys she's "hanging out" with also.  If you think she's worth it you'll step up your game which would probably mean more money and money.  At this point you're competing with multiple guys meaning your value to her probably isn't much because if she loses you she still has 4 other guys to buy her dinner.

So, what to do?  Use that effort on someone already in a relationship or specifically a troubled relationship. You may think women in troubled relationships are hard to find but the fact is people get bored easily and when bored they get curious.  Your job is to spark her interest and more importantly swoop her (definition of swooping). Most women in a relationship are (or at least should be) monogamous.  So your job is to get her to open up and start a conversation that will let you know what she's lacking.

Since the girl is already in a relationship you have no competition.  She wants things to work out but at the same time you've made her curious.  Your value is exponentially greater with her than the single girl because she feels she doesn't have many options and you're the knight in shining armor.

This is the cheapest and easiest way to get a girl but not the greatest.  Don't get attached and don't expect the relationship to be serious.  Since she basically cheated on her bf to be with you (if you were successful) then there's nothing stopping her from doing the same thing to you.